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Friday, March 13, 2009

Menggapai Bahagia

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”Apa sih ukuran kebahagiaan itu? Apakah kelimpahan materi, istri yang cantik, selalu shalat, atau apa? Aku tak tahu,” kata seorang teman suatu hari.

Bagi aku pertanyaan itu cukup mudah untuk dijawab, sebab jawabanku sederhana. Namun bagi orang lain bisa saja jadi rumit, seperti banyak hal di dunia fana ini, kebahagiaan adalah sesuatu yang relatif, yang senantiasa harus diusahakan.

”Bagiku kebahagiaan itu adalah berusaha setiap saat merasa nyaman dan damai dengan diriku dan membuat orang-orang yang aku cintai juga begitu.” Sepertinya agak ego, sebab buat orang-orang yang tidak aku cintai aku cenderung cuek...hehe...tapi setelah keluarga dan sahabat-sahabat terdekat, yang aku cintai termasuk orang-orang yang cinta damai, tak merasa ekslusif sendiri.

Beberapa kali ngobrol dengan Uur tentang orang-orang yang kadang menyebalkan, berusaha menimbulkan kesulitan dalam hidup orang lain karena iri dengki, ingin menjatuhkan, bahkan memfitnah, dsb...Aku menjawab, ”Anggaplah saja mereka hanya debu, yang akan luruh jika kau tepiskan.” Dan Uur menyambung, ”Iya Uni, akan bersih dengan wuhduk,”

Insya Allah ya adiak...Si abang juga sering menyuruhku berwudhuk kalau memang lagi butek. Keruh bak sungai di kota-kota besar, biasanya sih kalau PMS :D

Jika ukuran kebahagiaan adalah pemuasan ego dan nafsu, maka kamu tak akan pernah mendapatkannya.

RumahCinta-Ayahanda Medan, 2 Maret 2009

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Kesadaran bahwa tiada kebahagian yang hakiki tanpa didahului dengan cobaan-cobaan, yang semakin berat cobaannya semakin tinggi juga kebahagiaan yang akan menyertainya. Dan bahwa kebahagiaan dan cobaan akan selalu datang silih berganti, dan menyikapinya lebih penting ketimbang peristiwanya sendiri.

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kebahagiaan itu emang bener tidak di pandang dari materi, istri yang cantik saja, tapi yang di sebut bahagia menurutku karena di sukai banyak orang, jika orang suka dengan kita....jadi kita merasa bahagia dan nyaman ^_^

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ratu bibit said...

kebahagiaan sejati itu di ukur bukan dengan harta atau wanita tapi jika ia sudah dpat memenuhi kewajibannya sebagai seorang manusia dan selau merasa tidak kekuarangan akan karunia yang telah dilimpahkan_Nya

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